Every relationship, and every form of infidelity is different.
What caused a man to steer toward another woman varies greatly from one man to another. Some men simply need to keep variety in their lives and are constantly looking for ways to inflate their ego. For other men, it is a lack of sexual satisfaction at home leads to infidelity.
For others, it involves an adrenaline rush and can become a psychiatric addiction. For this reason, the statistics on how many cheat are quite skewed. The risk of cheating is highest within the first three years of marriage — then falls slightly and then steadily increases with age, with older men — around the age of 45 being the most likely to seek external affairs.
Sociologist expert Diane Solee with the Smart Marriages Coalition believes that affairs are more common today than they were in the past because technology has enabled couples to have more autonomy and secrecy in their life. Many people initiate what is considered harmless interactions with people over the internet or through text messaging and chat room or social networking sites and find themselves running headfirst into an emotional affair that turns physical.
Once an affair is revealed, the couple is left to deal with a malady of emotions from anger and resentment to hate and anguish. In his research which included a large amount of men who admitted to cheating on their wives many more than once the answer whether to trust again lies in your husbands response to the infidelity. Phil the popular television therapist believes that women have to hand down circumstances to a man after cheating.
Most often, women go through a cycle when an affair is suspsected. Once the indiscretion is revealed however, women tend to level out and more able to deal with the situation.
He also is firm that women have to be able to get ALL the information that they desire — about the details of the affair, in order to process it psycologically. If a man is unwilling to give full disclosure, chances are he will cheat again and the relationship will never be repaired. Phil also warns women that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. And this is where every women who has been the victim of an affair has to make a choice. Many women find that being cheated on puts them in a position in the relationship to have control for a while.
Additionally, it is important for a woman to understand WHY the man cheated in the first place. Was it sexual dissatisfaction?
Is it ego driven? Was it an accident? And perhaps most important for a woman who has been the victim of infidelity is to consider this further advice from relationship expert Dr. Obviously, there is inherent risk when trying to rebuild a relationship after infidelity.
The choice is yours. When wondering whether a cheating husband can change his cheating ways or not, the answers are almost always readily available inside your heart and intuition.
Truth is, YOU deserve to be able to trust your partner — and YOU have to be the one to set firm limits and boundaries in your relationship. If you are not willing to do so, you will likely end up with a serial cheater. You know that he is cheating still you want more proof? Here are some tips: The easiest is to see his phone the call list, messages, Facebook, Twitter,Whatssap, Snapchat messages wherever a person can have private messages needs to be checked.
But if his phone is password protected and you cannot access it you have to hire a hacker because that is what I did and I got everything diverted from his cellphone directly to mine without touching it. I noticed how much secrecy he maintained with his phone so I decided that the photo gallery and emails and virtually everything needed to be checked.
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